Hearing loss is a common problem among older adults. Studies have shown that for adults between the ages of 20–69, age was the strongest predictor of hearing loss, with the greatest amount occurring in the 60–69 age group.
Age-related hearing loss tends to come on gradually. Sometimes, the signs are so subtle that it’s a family member or another loved one who first notices a problem.
If you have a parent or spouse who seems to be struggling with their hearing, you likely want to talk to them about getting hearing aids but may feel unsure where to start. Let’s go over a few tips for talking to a loved one about hearing loss.
View it as a Process Instead of a Single Conversation
Talking to a loved one about their hearing loss can be a delicate conversation and one they might not be receptive to at first. It may take a series of conversations or a bit more time until they feel comfortable acknowledging a problem, and that’s OK! Knowing this beforehand can take some of the pressure off of bringing the topic up for the first time.
Pick the Right Time
Timing is everything, and being mindful of when you decide to bring up your loved one’s hearing loss is important to the success of the conversation. Ask to talk with them when it’s just the two of you, and neither of you is extra stressed or pressed for time.
Be Clear and Compassionate
It’s important to offer clear examples of when you’ve noticed their hearing loss struggles. Perhaps they have trouble following the conversation at the family dinner table or need to turn the TV up extra loud when you’re watching a movie together.
At the same time, make sure to give them space to talk about their feelings, whether that be frustration, anxiety or even their doubts that they have a problem. Try to understand where they are coming from and agree to table the conversation for another time if it becomes too overwhelming.
Focus on the Positives of Treating Hearing Loss
You don’t want the conversation to veer too negative. Rather, discuss the ways you’ve noticed hearing loss has impacted their lives, as well as the benefits of treating hearing loss. For example, if they’ve been avoiding their book club meetup at the Highland Park Public Library, you can discuss how hearing aids can make that easier for them.
Offer To Take Them to Their Hearing Test
Even if your loved one agrees to get help, they may feel overwhelmed or unsure where to start. You can help them by scheduling and taking them to an appointment, researching hearing aid options and offering support throughout the hearing aid fitting process.
If you’d like to learn more or wish to schedule an appointment with one of our experts, call North Shore Audio-Vestibular Lab today.